Taken

So... apparently the only guys that are ever interested in me are taken. The last guy I was talking about, the one with "no connection," had started to grow on me. Then... lo and behold, one saturday morning I get a phone call from his girlfriend. Yep, his girlfriend.

Then I hear that this other guy is interested... but he's married!

Today just kind of topped everything off. There was this cute guy in a class I took recently, but I wouldn't do anything because he had a girlfriend and I knew it. He's new, so I invited him to hang out with a few of my friends... and he came. Well, today he told me that things weren't working out with his girlfriend, but that he wasn't really all that broken up about it and he was looking forward to hanging out some more. A couple of hours later he emailed me to say that his girlfriend had seen the invite to hang out with friends on his facebook profile, and assumed he was cheating on her with me. Now he wants me to talk to her friend and tell this guy that we weren't involved.... which is true, but why should I be caught up in this drama?

I'm just frustrated with men in general right now... between these losers and the one that owes me child support... I'm really getting sick of their BS.

For Sarah

I promised Sarah I'd do this like four days ago... I guess that goes to show what kind of friend I am! :(

Single Mom. The words define me. In fact, I rarely call myself a mom, I call myself a single mom. I honestly can't tell you how many times a day I utter those words, "it comes with the territory... I'm a single mom, that's what happens when you're a single mom, after all... I'm a single mom." I wonder what that says about me. Do I define myself by how society sees me? Do I allow myself to fall under a stereotype? Or is that just a fact? Well, I know it's a fact, but is it nothing more nothing less?

This weekend I went and met my friends girlfriend who was in town. She's a nice girl, and I hope they are happy together. It angered me a little after meeting her... that I'm "not good enough" because I'M A SINGLE MOM... but it also made me feel better about the situation. If that's what he wants, bully for him. Obviously I can do better. I just wonder how long it's going to take me! Lol

Oh yeah, I also spent a lot of time with a guy last week... but nothings going to happen. He's really nice, decent looking... but there is no spark. I need the spark.

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